Our US Circle in 30 Days

After a few months, I am again discovering a foreign country. American may not seem so foreign because the Philippines has a lot of American...

After a few months, I am again discovering a foreign country. American may not seem so foreign because the Philippines has a lot of American influence already. But still, seeing and talking to Americans day by day is really foreign to me. It is something that I am not used to. Yet, I feel at peace here..

I am starting to write a day-by-day blog in order to jot down every detail of this trip. I want to remember this forever because this may happen once and never again. Only God knows.

1st Destination: California, here we come!

Sept 19 * Day 1

Dad was home early to drive Mom and me to NAIA Terminal 3. Paul was left to look after the home and Luke already went to school. We bid the pets goodbye. I knew I’m really going to miss home.

The traffic was already visible when we left home at 6:30 p.m. I spent my time in the car sending text messages to my friends. My friend Hannah even called me and shared some really nice insights which she learned from Pastor Caloy during the Singles Getaway. I totally dwell into it for it has a great impact to what was about to happen in my journey.

Next, I got to talk to my cousin ate Timmy which will also be leaving home to work in a foreign country. We already miss each other so much and we had many things going on in our lives that we had no time to meet up. Because we were using Sun, our calls were disconnected at times. We arrived at the airport at past 8 PM already. When we were in the line checking in our bags, I called ate Timmy again and Mom ate Timmy’s  mom whom we call “Mama.” It was funny because we really couldn’t hang up until Mom and I had to check in our bags. As I’m writing this, I already miss my cousin so bad. My good friend, Jaymie also called me while we were about to enter immigration but I told her I’m going to call her back because we were still busy. I didn’t get to call her anymore but I texted her goodbye.

In the immigration, I had an extremely haggard time. The woman in the computer screen asked me to set aside my backpack. Two men were inspecting it and one of them was totally rummaging through it. I was already covering up the liquids that I brought. They even wanted to get my Clinique Happy Heart perfume which they allowed for me to keep. But this nosy officer didn’t stop inspecting and kept looking inside my bag. He brought out my Human Nature conditioner and told me that I had to leave it behind. The other nicer officer told me to transfer it to a zip lock bag. Good thing my Mom had one empty and ready in her bag! I was really about to let it all go and leave my precious conditioner behind but the officer helped me in transferring it. The fact that I had to put all my liquids inside the check-in bag totally left my mind. My bad, really. The woman officer even reminded me, “Next time, travel smart” with a smile. Oh-my-god. I could smack her face. HAHAHA.

When we arrived at the waiting area, there was still one more immigration stop before we can finally be free. We had to leave all our hand carry bags behind to be inspected again. And not to mention, remove the shoes! We still had to wait for 30-minutes or so before we can finally board the plane. My Mom even encountered some rude AmFil guys (?) who called her b*#@# because they thought we cut in the line. We didn’t really cut in for there were no lines at all. When the flight seats were called, everyone came out from nowhere and followed the people. Those guys couldn’t really wait to get in.

The flight was approximately 12 hours. There was a small television in front of my seat, a detachable  remote control in the seat handle, a table,  a foot rest, and a pillow. But unfortunately, my seat was really jammed pack because of my backpack and camera travel bag. Still, I got to do a lot of things. I listened to Adele’s album “ “ and then watched LOTR. The dinner arrived so I ate fish with an egg dessert, bread with butter, juice and water. After eating, I resumed with watching another movie called “Prom” which I really didn’t like. I couldn’t stand the main character! So I switched with Hairspray which I have fully finished. The breakfast arrived after that and I just had longganisa with salad, peach dessert, bread with butter, butterscotch, tea, juice, and water. After that, I slept for a longer time until it is time for me to pack up, go to the toilet, and go down the plane.

Additionally, Mom and I met a very nice woman named Tita Lan who lives in LA. We told each other many things about our families and of course, our main goals why we were going to the US. She told me that I looked very young and I am still very young so I still have to enjoy life. She said I should not rush things, especially on love life because if I am going to study in a university here in the US, I am surely going to meet someone. She said this is a great opportunity for me and I should just go on with it.



We arrived past 10 PM at Los Angeles International Airport (LAX). At the immigration, we lined up for a long time again. One weird thing happened when a Chinese woman suddenly went to the officer and started speaking Chinese in a very high-pitched (not to mention annoying) voice. The officer kept telling her that he doesn’t speak Chinese and that she should go back to the line first. But the woman wanted to be understood so she went out of the line and roamed away. The officer exclaimed, “Where is she going?” Haha! I was a little afraid to talk to an officer but it was a good thing that my Mom was with me. The officer that we talked with was very nice and bubbly. He was totally conversing with us for he even shared some very interesting things about himself. He said he studied Spanish in high school and how he could still use it in his job now. At the baggage claim, Mom had a hard time finding her luggage because she didn’t memorize its look. It was circling round and round the pool of luggages and we were one of the few people who were still looking for our luggages.

When we got to the airport lobby, I saw a very familiar face. I kept asking myself if this guy was the one I saw in YouTube but I think it was really him. He was the guy in this Strangers, again video.

Tito Arnel and ate Carla picked us up. My first impression of LA was “The REAL Subic or Olongapo..” I was not so amazed or awed by it though I was really happy to be here. I am not sure if the reason why I liked it was because I was staying with my family/relatives or the place really had a good impression on me. The Talens brought us to their apartment in Motor Avenue. Ate Carla prepared delicious homemade foods for us: chicken with tomato sauce and couscous which a tiny pasta made of dough along with green onions, tomatoes, and etc  that matches well with the main dish. We talked about our trips and life in general. Then we surfed in the internet in order to book our flights. We were totally surprised that the flights available were highly priced already so we had to book the lowest price from Boston to Nevada right away. We decided not to book the flight from Chicago to Boston this time. We were hoping there would be a lower priced flight the next day. In order to pay for the flights, we had to drive down to Chase and deposit money in ate Carla’s credit card. It was a bit chilly in LA at night so I had to borrow a thicker jacket from ate Carla.

When we got back, we just arranged our things and prepared ourselves to sleep. We were able to sleep at around 1 AM. I really didn’t sleep deeply for I woke up around 2:58 a.m. and then I was awake until 5:58 a.m. There were two straight hours when I just laid on my bed wondering about things, closing my eyes, and hoping I could finally doze off...

Namamahay and jet lag in one. 

Sept 20 * Day 2


Recalling the sleep that I had a few hours ago, I couldn’t imagine myself taking a walk along Venice Beach. At 7:30 AM, Ate Carla, Tito Arnel and I left our beds while Mom was still sleeping pretty in hers. We drove downtown to Venice Beach wherein I saw so many beautiful houses and more and more people doing their thing.
There was one thing that I really noticed and still bothers me until now. There were lots of homeless people. I am already aware that California contains homeless people. My favourite band Switchfoot has already opened my eyes on this one when they started Stand Up For Kids in San Diego. But seeing them face to face and getting to interact with them just by looking through their eyes is a lot different. My cousin said some of them still have money for they receive money from the government even though they do not have a home. I couldn’t help but compare it to the Philippines’ situation regarding homeless people. In our country, homeless people are usually people who have no homes, no money... nothing. But here in America, homeless people have no homes but some of them still have money to buy food, clothes, and other needs such as a pack of cigarette. It didn’t draw me to any conclusion to the problem but I feel compassion towards these underserved people and particularly our world—what it is, what it does, and what it will become.









After roaming around the streets and houses along Venice Beach, we drove home and Mom was so excited to tell us that she found a very cheap flight to Boston. We booked it right away and they left me at home because they had to go to Chase once again and also buy the T-mobile sim card for $49.95 which we can use for unlimited calls and text within the U.S. and unlimited texting to Philippines. As for me, I stayed at home and surfed around the internet for awhile. I arranged my meetings with two people in a university in Massachussets so I was pretty psyched. God is moving...

Before taking our baths, we decided to swim. But the water was so cold that we ended up soaking our feet into the water and taking some pictures.


Meet ate Carla, my cousin

Tonight, I arranged to meet Sabine, my high school kabarkada in UPIS. It has been a year or more since I last saw her. Though she was going home this November, we still wanted to see each other and bond. Why waste the opportunity in a different country, right? I almost forgot about this when we were on our way to Staples and Ross. Mom had to print out her report at Staples and buy a new luggage at Ross. Sabine drove straight to Ross and I could not believe my eyes when I saw her. I felt like saying, “Is this real?” And then I let her meet my Mom and my cousin. Then we bid them goodbye.

I missed you so much, Sabine!
Reese's Peanut Butter Chocolate Cake Cheesecake
Sabine had the evening planned out. We drove to Glendale, Santa Monica. The drive was not supposed to be long but we encountered a really bad traffic jam because of an accident on the road. Plus, there were really so many people going our way that we arrived at Glendale around 9 PM already. Our stomachs were so empty. During the whole ride, we just kept talking about a lot of stuff concerning our lives and the lives of our friends. We dined at The Cheesecake Factory wherein we got excited with eating. We had a table outside and there was a heater beside us which turned out to be suffocating our faces a bit. HAHA. We both ordered pasta and a slice of cheesecake afterwards. The servings were so big that we didn’t even finish any of our orders. The dancing fountain was a beauty to behold. Sabine even caught me staring at it with dreamy eyes. I was so disappointed for leaving the SD card of my camera at home so I really didn’t have any good pictures. But Sabine asked the waiter to take pictures of us so it was fine. By the way, the black waiter was really funny and nice. People here in America are really nicer than I thought. Sabine paid for everything. Thank you, Wish*! Hihi.

After eating, Sabine and I went to H&M. I was thinking of buying a coat because it was so cold already but I stopped myself. We even walked to Target and found a very good Mossimo coat but I didn’t buy it. My Mom might be disappointed at me if I did because I wouldn’t be able to use it in the Philippines anyway.

The drive home in the freeway was much faster. Sabine and I just continued talking and laughing. I missed her really. We used to do a lot of good stuff together when we were in high school. When we got to my cousin’s place, Sabine lent me her gray jacket. I told her I had to get it from her so that we will really see each other again in October. 

The Judith was the one who welcomed me in when I arrived at the apartment. We were so happy to see each other again after 8 long years! She kept saying ganda ganda, nagiba mukha!, pang model, and pwede magartista! You know what I told her, “I love you tita!” And she said, “I love you too!” HAHAHA.

Mom told me that the word of the university I’m eyeing on is “diversity.” It has been confirmed many times that this opportunity is possible for me. Though I’m still kind of afraid, ate Carla assured me to try instead of not trying and wondering about the what ifs. I wouldn’t lose anything. So my confidence has been going up lately. I’m really thankful for the advices people are giving me.

I slept much better tonight. I didn’t grab Mom’s hand anymore. LOL. Though I was still rising up when the sound of cars in the freeway were so loud, I still managed to have a good sleep.

I have overcome my namamahay and jet lag when I’m leaving LA already.. 

Sept 21 * Day 3

First of all, happy happy birthday to my late grandmother, Nanay!


 I still woke up today in LA. Ate Carla and I woke up a little late but we still had some time to go around town and take some pictures. The weather was warmer because the sun has already risen. Still, the winds were still cool.


We roamed around Sony Pictures, as in literally!  We didn’t go inside because there is a price ticket for every show attended.  But walking around and talking about stuffs were pretty fine.. plus a good exercise too! Sadly, we didn’t see anyone famous. Ate Carla said even though the y have been living in LA for two to five years, they still haven’t seen a famous actor or actress. Where have they gone?


We went home to eat lunch with our parents. Ate Carla was the cook once again! She really cooks well! She prepared Pompano fish and tomatoes with bagoong salad. I felt like I was eating at the Philippines. I missed it!

Packages, where have you gone?
We packed our bags and Ate Carla and Tito Arnel drove us to the airport. We planned to meet again in early October because Ate Carla and I still have a Switchfoot with Anberlin concert to watch. Waaah, I really hope she does come with me! Thanks to the Talens family for everything! They were our first set of kindred spirits here. <3

At the airport, the receptionist at the check in counter was Spanish. She was very sharp looking and unfriendly. Knowing my Mom, she gave her a killer look though she didn’t say anything. This actually changed my perspective that all American citizens are friendly. Well, I believe at least most of ‘em.

The lines at the immigration were very long. All of our belongings were screened though no problem rose up. We had a hassle-free immigration this time. Waiting for boarding time, which happened to be 4:10 PM, was longer than I thought. It was the most boring moment so far. All I did was people watching. Eventually, we boarded our plane, Virgin America, which turned out to be very modern, clean, and simple. There was a small television in front of the seat, a detachable remote control on the seat handle, and a table. They also said it has free wi-fi but it didn’t work in my phone. It requires me to pay for it. I also didn't get to sleep much because of the structure of the seat. I think it wasn't really made for long hour travels. We got a 3-hour travel time. 

Next stop in the US circle: Chicago, Illinois!

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3 comments

  1. OMJ lesson learned: puede makahanap ng jowabell kapag nag-aral sa ibang bansa. Hahaha! Owwell, there goes my opportunity. :| HAHA LOKO LENG.

    I miss you, Kaye! Kwentuhan mo ako nito in person when you arrive. :D

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  2. Gorgeous photos, looks like an amaaazing trip! And omigoshhh that Reeses peanut butter cake looks so delicious, i'm seriously salivating here!
    xx

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  3. @Ella Mae: HAHAHAHA. Benta. I saw you already but there's no room for kuwentos because it was already "enrollment" period. LOL.

    @Corrina: Thank you dear! Yeah, it is very delicious and not to mention SWEET. I thought I was going to have diabetes. ((:

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